A HUG, A PAT,A WORD THAT,S ALL…

In todays world people are too busy, too preoccupied, too self-centered….ITS TRUE..
But no one can blame anyone for that. Its how people think that they can keep on to the pace of the ever changing world…

The situation has become thus that people have lost their interest towards looking into what their fellow comrade is doing…

U must have seen many people with extraordinary talents on the streets.. Have u ever thought of questioning them as to why they have become so? Well I did once…

When I had gone to delhi during my vacations I happened to come across a person who was singing on the streets.. I have heard a lot others who sing but this man was quite different. He had such a beautiful voice and had composed such a mind-blowing tune that I really thought that it was one of those mock shows or some kind of shooting going on…I mean I couldn believe that a person with so much talent was singing just for earning a days stomach fill… Man he had such talent that every person who passed by paused for a minute or two to his beats…
Out of curiosity when i started a conversation with him and guess what he said..”Amma I am one of those left out cases in this world.God has given me talents but he is so cruel to create people who dont even care about them. I have lost all hopes and I am tired of trying to make myself visible. Every one is so preoccupied and selfish. I don expect a great pomp and show,just a silent admiration and encouragement, its all the money I ever wanted”…

Fellow mates there’s a very important lesson to learn from this.. every person in this world expects some recognition of himself..It surely isn’t going to harm anyone if we congratulate or appreciate a person who really deserves it. Try it out!! Nothing much just a hug or a pat or a silent gesture of appreciation is all that is to be done u will see wonders working out .. u will become the most remembered and caring person…People will want to work under u.

Take interest in what ur co workers, do appreciate them to the fullest extent ..what ever they do motivate them.. this will be their greatest inspiration..
This is the most easy but effective way by which u can win others..as well as bring out others.

So try starting by giving urself a pat first…..

HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS

HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS
Human relationships is a very interesting topic to discuss about in my point of view..

It is the most important factor with which all the things going on in this world, r going on... properly..to some extent.


I recently read a book by DALE CARNEGIE..really interesting.
I would like to share a topic that I really liked and which I hope will be useful for others too…
Do u remember yourself wanting to get something done so badly ,but the person who needs to do the work for u is in no mood to even recognize u.. well what would u have done at that moment…
Probably cursed him behind his back…
Or probably
Ran around him for days together just to make yourself noticed…
In the middle of all this u would have had one question continuously ringing inside your head “How on earth can I get this man to acknowledge me?”
There’s only one way and don have a second thought to do it..
“JUST TRY TO MAKE THE OTHER PERSON WANT TO DO YOUR JOB”
Its as simple as that……
Dale Carnegie says that ”its ofcourse quite easy to make someone give his belongings by sticking a revolver in his ribs..
Its easy to make employees give you cooperation until ur back is turned---‘By threatening to fire them.” But whats the use in that ..all of it will turn against u one fine day.. ya that’s true..
Instead try making the other person to understand the benefits that he gains from doing ur job..Give two or three extra reasonable build ups it won hurt for sure..
By doing all these, your work gets over before you know..the other guy also gets what he wants and you also maintain a friendly relationship…
WOW!! Isn’t it cool that’s all you wanted..that’s all that you just wanted and its all done without any confusion and complications..
So then why don u try it out in real life..it worked for me. So try the smooth road rather than the bumpy and broken one……

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