HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS

HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS
Human relationships is a very interesting topic to discuss about in my point of view..

It is the most important factor with which all the things going on in this world, r going on... properly..to some extent.


I recently read a book by DALE CARNEGIE..really interesting.
I would like to share a topic that I really liked and which I hope will be useful for others too…
Do u remember yourself wanting to get something done so badly ,but the person who needs to do the work for u is in no mood to even recognize u.. well what would u have done at that moment…
Probably cursed him behind his back…
Or probably
Ran around him for days together just to make yourself noticed…
In the middle of all this u would have had one question continuously ringing inside your head “How on earth can I get this man to acknowledge me?”
There’s only one way and don have a second thought to do it..
“JUST TRY TO MAKE THE OTHER PERSON WANT TO DO YOUR JOB”
Its as simple as that……
Dale Carnegie says that ”its ofcourse quite easy to make someone give his belongings by sticking a revolver in his ribs..
Its easy to make employees give you cooperation until ur back is turned---‘By threatening to fire them.” But whats the use in that ..all of it will turn against u one fine day.. ya that’s true..
Instead try making the other person to understand the benefits that he gains from doing ur job..Give two or three extra reasonable build ups it won hurt for sure..
By doing all these, your work gets over before you know..the other guy also gets what he wants and you also maintain a friendly relationship…
WOW!! Isn’t it cool that’s all you wanted..that’s all that you just wanted and its all done without any confusion and complications..
So then why don u try it out in real life..it worked for me. So try the smooth road rather than the bumpy and broken one……